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Hosting & Planning Jess Murphy Hosting & Planning Jess Murphy

Dinner Party Hosting 101: Everything You Need to Know

Dinner party hosting has a way of starting with excitement and quietly turning into anxiety. The questions arrive fast: what to cook, when to do what, how to look relaxed when the doorbell rings at 6pm. The good news is that a great dinner party is almost entirely a planning problem, not a cooking one. Get the decisions made early, build a sensible timeline, and the evening runs itself.

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Hosting & Planning Jess Murphy Hosting & Planning Jess Murphy

Stress Free Entertaining: 10 Tips That Actually Work

Six browser tabs open. A grocery list on a sticky note. The party is in four days and nothing is confirmed. That chaos is not a hosting problem — it is a systems problem. Stress free entertaining comes down to a handful of decisions made earlier than feels necessary, and a prep plan that front-loads the work so the evening belongs to you and your guests.

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In Praise of the Folding Table

Setting a table properly is one of those skills that looks instinctive in other people and feels elusive until you understand the logic behind it. Cutlery, plates, glassware — once the rhythm makes sense, you can build on it however you like. Here is how to get it right every time, and a few of my favourite variations for when the occasion calls for something a little different.

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