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Hosting & Planning Jess Murphy Hosting & Planning Jess Murphy

Dinner Party Hosting 101: Everything You Need to Know

Dinner party hosting has a way of starting with excitement and quietly turning into anxiety. The questions arrive fast: what to cook, when to do what, how to look relaxed when the doorbell rings at 6pm. The good news is that a great dinner party is almost entirely a planning problem, not a cooking one. Get the decisions made early, build a sensible timeline, and the evening runs itself.

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Hosting & Planning Jess Murphy Hosting & Planning Jess Murphy

Stress Free Entertaining: 10 Tips That Actually Work

Six browser tabs open. A grocery list on a sticky note. The party is in four days and nothing is confirmed. That chaos is not a hosting problem — it is a systems problem. Stress free entertaining comes down to a handful of decisions made earlier than feels necessary, and a prep plan that front-loads the work so the evening belongs to you and your guests.

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How to Style the Perfect Home Bar

Setting up a bar before guests arrive is one of the most effective things a host can do. It removes the pressure of pouring drinks on demand, gives guests something to gravitate toward the moment they walk in, and signals that the evening has been prepared for them. It does not need to be expensive or elaborate — it needs to be intentional.

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Easy dinner party Cocktails

A cocktail at arrival does something a bottle of wine on the table cannot quite replicate — it signals that the evening has been thought about before anyone sat down. The best dinner party cocktails are ones that can be batched in advance, set out for guests to help themselves, and require nothing from you once the first person knocks.

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In Praise of the Folding Table

Setting a table properly is one of those skills that looks instinctive in other people and feels elusive until you understand the logic behind it. Cutlery, plates, glassware — once the rhythm makes sense, you can build on it however you like. Here is how to get it right every time, and a few of my favourite variations for when the occasion calls for something a little different.

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